Thoughts...

If you love somebody should you feel bad about it? Of course, no, right? Most people would claim so. The rest would've answered 'yes'. Anyway, don't start with me, people. The forthcoming words are purely mine, regardless how weird they're, considering ME.


Back to the main point.


I agree with the first answer; we shouldn't feel bad when we fall for someone. But it's really up to that someone whether they like us back or not. Uh, wait, no, that's totally not right. We're not the ones who control our feelings. We can never tell our heart how to feel. Love is an involuntary act. And it's somewhat depressing, don't you think so? Love is very unpredictable. You have to expect the unexpected. See? Love is a hard matter to discuss. I don't know why I bothered, anyway. Ignore my foolishness.


They say that when we are in love, we don't see things right. We see them just the way they are, no matter right or wrong, everything will seem so perfect. Fairytale-like. But when it comes to breaking ups, we'll start to digest every single thing we'd seen perfectly. Then we'll start blaming. Blame here and there. Blame him, her and them.


We'll keep blaming others and blaming those crappy situations until we finally realize that we are the ones who actually very stupid. Stupid in making the right decisions. Stupid enough for saying yes. Stupid for being too easy. Stupid beyond compare and repair. Love'd blind us, and we'd regret it.


But, what's the use of crying over spoiled milk, right?


While choosing, forget about their looks. Looks can be very deceiving. While loving, be honest. Acknowledge each precious moment. While crying, consider their feelings. Can we do that? No, we can't, if we let our lust conquers all. That's very unfortunate, people.


One who's controlled by lust is just walking this world as a puppet; merely following, never thinking.


So while searching for the right one, choose wisely. :)